Your Toxic Ex answers some questions

To start off, if you have come here on this page, and happen to relate to this scrap, remember that you deserve all the love and light in this world. Someone who didn’t appreciate your value or abused their way with you doesn’t deserve a second thought and that’s the only thing you need to remember.

Here is a set of questions. Assume that these are being asked to your toxic ex. And assuming that they’ve done the necessary healing, let’s anticipate the answers.

So let’s begin.

1. Why did the relationship fail?

Because I couldn’t confront my fears and insecurities, and I pushed them away instead of growing together.

2. Did you truly care for them?

Yes, but I didn’t know how to show it in a way that made them feel valued and secure.

3. Can you be trusted on the fact that you loved them?

Yes, you can trust me on that. I may have failed to express it or act on it in the way they deserved, but what I felt for them was real. It’s one of the few things I’m absolutely certain of, even if my actions often contradicted it.

4. What’s your biggest regret about how you treated them?

Taking their love for granted and not appreciating how much they tried to make things work.

5. Did you ever consider apologizing?

Yes, many times, but I convinced myself that staying silent was better for their peace.

6. How did you feel when you saw them happy with someone else?

It hurt deeply, but I knew they deserved the happiness I couldn’t give them.

7. Do you believe you’ve changed since the relationship ended?

Not entirely, but I’m trying to reflect, grow, and break the patterns that caused the damage.

8. What would you say to them if you had one chance?

“I’m sorry for the pain I caused. You deserved someone who could love you better.”

9. What do you miss the most about them?

Their kindness, their patience, and the way they made me feel understood even when I didn’t deserve it.

10. Why didn’t you let them go earlier if you couldn’t love them properly?

Because I was selfish. I wanted their presence even when I wasn’t capable of treating them right.

11. What would you like to change from the past?

I would change my inability to communicate and my fear of vulnerability. If I could go back, I’d choose to open up, appreciate them more, and not let my own insecurities ruin something so meaningful.

12. What would you do differently in future relationships?

I’d learn to communicate, be vulnerable, and appreciate the love I’m given instead of taking it for granted.